Laura Trahan

Valentine’s Gift Ideas for Your Man



Posted: Monday, January 30, 2006

by Laura Trahan

What better way to celebrate Valentine’s Day than to turn the giving around. Each year, I watch as my husband suffers to find that gift that will not only make my eyes sparkle with his romantic thoughtfulness, but also live up to the glaring judgment of my female co-workers. However, this year, I have declared that I should be the one to take the pressure and give my husband the Ultimate Guy Valentine Gift. After a search online to see the top male Valentine gifts, I was discouraged at the results. Therefore, I have taken it on myself to compile my own gift guide for those women out there who aren’t married to that traditional guy who actually enjoys tie tacks. I hope that these non-traditional men’s Valentine gifts can inspire and delight other women to move forward and begin to initiate romance for their special Valentine.

Simple and Sneaky

Contact someone at his work who can get you in after hours. Sneak in and decorate his office with cutesy valentines, streamers and balloons. Include a package with some sort of junk food or breakfast treat (i.e. muffins, Frappuccinos, Cokes, etc.) Sure it will leave him embarrassed, but he will enjoy the extra attention.

Movie Mania

What guy doesn’t like movies? Arrange for babysitting if you have children and schedule a time to go see a movie. Of course, since it is a gift, it has to be a movie with lots of violence and explosions. Skip the girly cheesy romantic stuff this time.

Action Adventure

Pay for an hour of Laser Tag or Paintball. He will enjoy getting to let out energy and seeing a different side of you. Ladies remember: let him win.

Car Care

Take the keys and get his car washed and detailed. Men treat their cars like second wives and will enjoy the fact that you too believe their “baby" is worth the attention.

Gadget Guru

These guys are the easiest to buy for if you have the money. If they haven’t gotten the new iPod video, you are set. Be sure though to do the cheesy free engraving. The possibilities are endless with this set of guys, just tour your local tech store and stock up or give the gift card.

Sexy Seductress

Of course, what husband doesn’t want to enjoy time with his wife? Buy him some cute pajamas or boxers, get rid of the kids for the evening, buy yourself something cute and order a pizza. Don’t forget the candles!

So this Valentine’s Day, women, use your imagination. Isn’t the point to make that special someone feel special? Don’t settle for the traditional (boring) tie, money clip or tie tack. Be creative and take the pressure off of him this year. If all else fails, buy something you both can enjoy such as a couple’s massage. That way, you are sure to get what you want.

Laura Trahan is married to an awesome, amazing, wonderful, etc. etc. man and has two beautiful kids. She has just recently woke up and started two new blogs http://lauratrahan.wordpress.com and http://tomballgtmom.wordpress.com. Feel free to visit anytime.
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Top-level comments on this article: (8 total)
» left by Cori
from Kansas City
6 years 94 days ago.
I love your ideas! My husband is probably one of the least romantic guys in the world and that other stuff I found online was nothing but romantic. If he's not going to enjoy it, why do it? Your ideas are great! Thanks for sharing :)
» left by 4 years 183 days ago.
Thanks so much for the kind words and for commenting!
» left by Anonymous
5 years 111 days ago.
great job. I too looked online and your article is the only one that I consider worthy of thought. Thank you. I'm going to try your suggestions for my man this Valentines Day
» left by 4 years 183 days ago.
Go for it! Thanks so much for the kind comment!
» left by orange county 4 years 90 days ago.
i am not married, but everything you've said has been worth it. Your ideas are the only realistic ones and non-traditional. Love it!
» left by Rostangue from South Africa 3 years 89 days ago.
laura your valentines ideas... totally suck. Its way to cheasy... comon girl, live a little. Those ideas will embarrass yourself instead of making an impression.

» left by Laura Trahan 3 years 89 days ago.
hmmm. . .that is funny. . .i had no problem exciting and getting a guy with these tips!
» left by Anonymous 3 years 88 days ago.
Great Ideas, Thanks.
» left by Lisa 3 years 88 days ago.
I totally  agree, wonderful ideas.
» left by Laura Trahan 3 years 88 days ago.
Thank you for the encouragement, ladies!
» left by J
from VA
2 years 89 days ago.
Great Ideas. It is better to be creative than spend tons of money on a gift. Love it!
» left by J
from VA
2 years 89 days ago.
Great Ideas. It is better to be creative than spend tons of money on a gift. Love it!
» left by chuck from arizona 97 days 8 hours ago.
These are stupid...terrible idea...simply useless. So sorry for your husband. Like we want to be embarassed..hello no

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